All posts by Pat Gustafson


We want to welcome our new parsonage family to Bethel Wesley. The Rev. Tim Gossett (with his wife Myra) arrived in Moline on July 1st to begin serving as our pastor. According to Tim’s bio, his white  hair makes him look older than he is, as he is only 59 years young. The Gossett’s have been married 37 years and have 2 grown children – Adam (29) and Melissa (27). They also have 3 grandchildren – Cameron (8), Lucy (5), and Lucas (2). Tim has one brother who lives near Elgin.  His two sisters and his parents are deceased. <!–split–>

Tim is a second career minister. In his first life, he graduated from SIUC with a BS in accounting and worked as a financial accountant for 20 years. For his second life, he attended Eden Theological Seminary in St. Louis, and graduated Course of Study from Garrett Evangelical Theological Seminary in Evanston.

He has been active in the United Methodist Church his entire life. He has held various offices within the church leadership, sang in the chancel choir, and played in the handbell choir. He was called to ministry while attending a Certified Lay Speaker program and as he states – the rest is history!

Tim’s hobbies include cooking and crocheting. Myra holds a CNA certificate and is planning to continue that work in the QCA. She has one sister, one brother, and her father still living.

Ice Cream Social

Sunday June 28 – 4:30 – 6:30 pm

Tickets Available At The Door

Adults $3 or  Children (10 & under) $2 – Includes pie or cake, ice cream & beverage

Also available:  Sloppy Joe or Polish Sausage – $3; Hot Dogs – $2

Come & Enjoy!

Sunday Brunch

On Sunday, June 21 there will be a “Farewell To Flo” brunch from 8:30-10:15 am in the Activity Center. Please stop by to eat and to thank Pastor Flo for her ministry and to wish her well in her new appointment.

Annual Conference

“Healing the Circle”  (2 Corinthians 7:10) will be the theme for the 2015 Annual Conference in Peoria June 10-13. We will gather to worship, pray, learn, and care for the business of the Illinois Great Rivers Annual Conference. Pledges and offerings for Making Dreams Possible (African University scholarship endowment) will start the conference. <!–split–>

A focal point of the 2015 Annual Conference will be the Act of Repentance Service for the Healing of Relationships with Native Americans and Indigenous Persons to heal the soul of our church, our people, and the land. Two keynote speakers will help us understand the history and need for healing. This could apply to any broken relationship and its healing. Other highlights or the 2015 Annual Conference will be the Ordination Service, the Memorial Service, and the Service for Retirees. There will be reports and important legislation to consider.

Are you interested in attending for the whole session or a day or two? Bethel Wesley has a suite reserved in a close-by  hotel and there is room for YOU. Please let Pastor Flo know if you are interested.

We are asked to collect items for book bags for Native American reservations. Please contribute by bringing any of these items by June 7: *spiral notebooks (8×10.5 inches, 70-80 pages, 1 subject), *stick-style pens (blue or black, no advertising), *box of 24 crayons, *pair of blunt school scissors (rounded tip).

Vacation Bible School

This year we will combine with Riverside United Methodist Church (712 16th Street, Moline) for Vacation Bible School.  The dates are Monday-Friday, June -22-26, from 6-8 pm.  The theme is “Journey off the Map.”  Registration forms are available at the church.  Sign up early!

Aging Well

“Even to your old age, I am He, and even to gray hairs I will carry you! I have made, and I will bear; even I will carry, and will deliver you.”  (Isaiah 46:3-4)

Everyone knows that as we age, our minds and bodies decline, and life inevitably becomes less satisfying and enjoyable. Everyone knows that cognitive (mental ability) decline is inevitable. Everyone knows that as we get old, we become less productive … well, everyone, it seems is wrong! A growing body of scientific research shows that, in my ways, life gets better as we get older… <!–split–>

A Wall Street Journal report notes, “contrary to the stereotype of later life as a time of loneliness, depression, and decline, a growing body of evidence indicates that our moods and overall sense of well-being improve with age.”

Let’s debunk some of the common myths ….

MYTH # 1:  Depression is more prevalent.  Research indicates that emotional well-being improves until the 70’s when it levels off. Older adults tend to focus on positive rather than negative motions and memories, because they tend to prioritize emotional meaning and satisfaction: older adults tend to be happier, less anxious, less angry, and tend to adapt well to the circumstances.

MYTH # 2: Cognitive decline is inevitable.  As we age, our brains undergo structural changes, and neurons that carry messages becomes less efficient, causing concentration and memory slip (this begins around the age of 30!) But recent discoveries indicate that – barring dementia – older adults perform better in the real world. Cognitive tests often underestimate the true abilities of older adults; while in the real world, most of what we do is based on the knowledge we have acquired, and older adults who are tested in familiar situations show few of the deficits that crop up in laboratory tests!  (Learning new skills – learning to quilt, use an iPad, or take digital photos – help us to improve memory and processing speed.)

MYTH # 3: Older workers are less productive. Workers 55 and older make up 22% of the U.S. workforce, up from 12% in 1992. The majority of academic studies shows “virtually no relationship between age and job performance.” In fact, some studies show that older adults have a performance “edge” because they seem to know better how to avoid serious errors (experience, plus judgment).

MYTH # 4:  Loneliness is more likely. As people age, their social circles contract, but friendships tend to improve with age … we know who our real friends are! Older adults report better marriages, more supportive friendships, less conflict, and closer ties with members of this social networks than younger adults and fewer problematic relationships that case them distress. They have learned to eliminate those people from their social circle whom they feel less close to and maximize the time with close partners who are more emotionally satisfying.

MYTH # 5:  Creativity declines with age. Studies dating back as far as the 1800’s show midlife as the time when artists and scholars are most prolific. Historians and philosophers may reach their peak output when they’re in the 60’s, while conceptual artists tend to do their best work in their 20’s-30’s. Experimental artists requires a few more decades to reach full potential, improving with experience. Think Mark Twain, Paul Cezanne, Frank Lloyd Wright, Robert Frost who all relied on wisdom, which increases with age.

MYTH # 6: More exercise is better!  When it comes to improving health and longevity, exercise is key, but a growing number of studies show that more is not always better. In research published in 2013 scientists at institutions including Iowa State University, found that long-term strenuous endurance exercise may cause “overuse injury” to the heart. Their recommendations: stick to a moderate workout of no more than 50-60 minutes of exercise daily, and take at least one day off each week. Current guidelines suggest 30 minutes of moderate exercise – walking at a good pace – 5-6 days a week still promotes health without the risks of injury that strenuous exercise may inflict. Doing it with a walking partner gets you out, gets you active, and affords you the social contact that it as important as loose limbs!

For more information, go to by Marla Lichtsinn, RN, MPA, FCN, Parish Nurse    (permission granted to reprint)

Your Parish Nurse, Kara

Flowing From The Heart Of Pastor Flo

Brothers and Sisters, as I sit here and think of you, I know I must write this letter with love in my heart:

As you are aware, my status with the Illinois Great Rivers Conference as an ordained Elder in full connection in the United Methodist Church unites me with other United Methodist pastors in a covenant community whose calling first and foremost is to serve God and Christ in the world. <!–split–>

The covenant also calls us to serve Christ and the world where we are sent. United Methodist pastors are always prepared to itinerate as the Holy Spirit, working through our Bishop and Cabinet of our Annual Conference, directs that we should.

The purpose of this letter is to share with you in writing that Bishop Jonathan D. Keaton has appointed me to serve as the Senior Pastor of Greenville First United Methodist Church in the Mississippi River District, beginning July 1, 2015. I will be moving to Greenville IL where I will continue the ministry of Christ in a new setting and with a new congregation of United Methodists. I am, of course, still processing my own emotions about this move; emotions which range from excitement as I anticipate this new adventure, to the fear and trembling one feels in the face of a new challenge, to the enormous pain and grief that always comes when we must leave the people we’ve come to love and know and the place we’ve all come to call home.

The changes ahead will naturally include a new Pastor appointment to Bethel Wesley; l  assure you it will be a smooth transition.

In the midst of chaos and change, one thing remains the same: Jesus Christ! Jesus is the same yesterday, today and forever. He is at the helm of this ship we call the church. He is able to lead us safely through storms into calmer seas and to get us where we need to go. Let us lean into him for our direction and care in this time of change.

I love you all!

Your servant, Flo

Young Adult Ministry

An organizational meeting was held on Sunday, April 26th to dream about activities and opportunities for young folks at Bethel Wesley. We are thinking about a name for this group, and in the meantime are planning some exciting fellowship and mission activities. The first event will be a potluck at 6:00 PM on Sunday, May 31st followed by some lively Christian music, singing and dancing.  All of us came to church when someone invited us. So, spread the word!! Calendars of future events will be distributed on the 31st. We will focus on food, fellowship, community events, and mission opportunities as we strengthen our relationship with God and each other. All are invited, so invite everyone!

Vacation Bible School

This year we will combine with Riverside United Methodist Church (712 16th Street, Moline) for Vacation Bible School.  The dates are Monday-Friday, June -22-26, from 6-8 pm.  The theme is “Journey off the Map.”  Registration forms are available at the church.  Sign up early!